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23 October 2009 @ 11:28 pm
No matter how much one tries to avoid it, the spark that a new couple shares or the so called honeymoon period will eventually come to an end.

And at the base and underneath it all, one will be confronted of the question: What is love?

Confusion sets in and you think whether you love the person now. Or you loved that person. Perhaps the only reason you are holding on is because of the assured familiarity, just like how a child clings to her blankie because it brings comfort.

People then answer and say that love is about commitment. What does that mean exactly? It sounds airy fairy. So you love someone because you make a conscious choice to commit, you choose to take upon that responsibility. Then, is that love?

This has been on my mind since a really long time ago. Maybe, in the midst of my relationship with E in the past. Yes, after 1 year, that spark did die off,
but I never got that question answered or thought about it too deeply because we ended our 27 months only because of religion.

These thoughts make me cynical about love between a couple and it gnaws at the mind once again now that I'm in a relationship again.

Trust my mind to think of everything in the sun when im doing my work. This semester is my busiest shittiest worst one ever due to the no exams thing.
Current Location: home
Current Mood: contemplativecontemplative
Current Music: Get sexy - Sugababes
feefifoo on November 28th, 2009 02:34 pm (UTC)
Happy Birthday!
Jo chanspirited_storm on November 29th, 2009 01:45 pm (UTC)
Thanks :) You are?